Holy Week at Home: Maundy Thursday

One of the stories we read and remember on Maundy Thursday is that of Jesus gathering with his disciples before Passover; Luke’s gospel (22:7-23) focuses on the shared meal and reflects our practice of the Lord’s Supper, while John’s gospel (13:1-17; 31-35) focuses on the washing of the disciples’ feet and reminds us of our baptism. Having loved his own who were in the world, Jesus loved them to the end. And as a sign of that love, the Servant Lord leads by example yet again. He is showing them what it means to live out the new commandment he gives: Love each other. Just as I have loved you, so you also much love each other. This is how everyone will know that you are my disciples, when you love each other.

As an invitation to reflect on the servant love that is at the heart of our faith, you’re invited to practice a hand washing ritual. We are washing our hands a lot these days! And while many of us are singing 20 seconds worth of songs to make sure we do the job well, this invitation is different. It is a slow, gentle, intentional washing of hands. So, find your favorite soap; maybe it’s a scent that reminds you of someone you love, maybe it’s a fragrance that soothes you, maybe it leaves your hands feeling moisturized and nourished. And warm the water to that just-right temperature. As you begin to lather the soap around your hands, consider who has shown you love with their hands. How have you received servant love from another person recently? Offer gratitude for them and the experience you’ve had of being seen and cared for. Take your time and keep making suds until you can’t think of any more people. Then rinse your hands slowly and with care. Use a favorite towel to dry your hands; maybe it’s sentimental because someone gave it to you or maybe you just enjoy the texture. As you dry your hands, consider how they have offered servant love to others. Remember recent experiences of using them to show care in preparing food, offering prayer, holding another hand. And offer gratitude for your gifts of love offered, as well.

As you conclude this prayerful ritual, offer these words of prayer and blessing:

May my hands be gentle and open, O God.

May they be grateful to give and grateful to receive.

May they be sources of your servant love in the world.

May they bring hope and joy, peace and compassion.

To my life and to the lives of others.

In the way and name of our brother Jesus, we pray.

Amen.

Lindsey Altvater Clifton